Reading at Midtown
Yesterday's reading was stupendous for me. I am grateful for Midtown Scholar's hospitality, Jonathan's consistent support, Howard's steadying editing and presence, Benno and Molly's love, and my many friends who came to listen. Thank you, everyone!
Calling Mother
In the fall of 2008 I looked for a writing prompt, something that would encourage me to practice the art of writing. Telephone calls to my Mother came to mind, so I began then to call when I had time to write reflectively afterward, catching my interior thoughts and feelings.
Here is the first essay entitled, Mother, written on October 10, 2008 and posted November 16, 2012.
Here is the first essay entitled, Mother, written on October 10, 2008 and posted November 16, 2012.
2 Honey in Our Mouth written on October 22, 2008. Posted December 26, 2012.
3 No Regrets Needed written on November 15, 2008 and posted December 26, 2012.
4. I Would Like to Come written on November 22, 2008 and posted on February 5, 2013.
5. Sophia written on December 15, 2008 and posted February 5, 2013.
6. Light and Darkness written on February 10, 2009 and posted February 28, 2013.
7. Bless Me written on May 17, 2009 and posted February 28, 2013.
8. Happy Birthday written on June 17, 2009 and posted on April 30, 2013.
9. Simple Gifts Exchanged written on July 8, 2009 and posted on April 30, 2013.
10. Talking with Mother written on June 7, 2010 posted May 1, 2013.
11. Mother, again Yesterday written September 19, 2010 and posted May 1, 2013.
Jude, an artist and poet, says, "I've read through the essays and I enjoyed them immensely . . . one of the things that affected me was the silence in the spaces; they provided me an opportunity to be with the Lord . . . the spaces are filled with the Spirit, the Holy Spirit."
Responses from Saturday's Reading at Midtown Scholar:
I think for me what drew me in was the power of the mindful loving approach to conversation. When one takes such an approach, it opens up possibility, because one discovers something about a relationship and can use these discoveries to take it to deeper levels. Much was added by the fact that you were reading them in person: like the difference between live music and a recording. And also the format naturally created interest in the way that good novels do because one felt that there was an interesting struggle of some kind in the past, and there was suspense because each phone call seemed to reveal a little more about what that was. Plus it made me wonder about being more mindful in my own approach to my parents. I know that they are not going to be around too much longer, so I'm spending more time with them, but I think I could increase the quality of that time. There are barriers because we have such a different way of looking at things, but I can learn from how you are overcoming such barriers.
Paul Van Arragon computer scientist, age 51, married, with two children and four parents
So fortunate to spend time at Midtown Scholar this afternoon for a reading from Cathleen's series of essays, Calling Mother. A deep look inside a mother-daughter relationship, and what is said or goes unsaid within families. I'm so thankful that she has found her voice and gives voice to many other generations of women in her family through this series.
Beth Transue, librarian
Cathleen did a beautiful job this afternoon reading from her series of essays based on conversations with her mother. Here are a few of them for those of you who are daring enough to spend some time reflecting on close relationships - what we hope for, what we miss, how we can find what was lost, and make peace with what was. Can't wait for more of these to come out and find their way into a book that touches hearts.
Sue Schmidt, worship facilitator, life coach and mother of three adult daughters
Paul Van Arragon computer scientist, age 51, married, with two children and four parents
So fortunate to spend time at Midtown Scholar this afternoon for a reading from Cathleen's series of essays, Calling Mother. A deep look inside a mother-daughter relationship, and what is said or goes unsaid within families. I'm so thankful that she has found her voice and gives voice to many other generations of women in her family through this series.
Beth Transue, librarian
Cathleen did a beautiful job this afternoon reading from her series of essays based on conversations with her mother. Here are a few of them for those of you who are daring enough to spend some time reflecting on close relationships - what we hope for, what we miss, how we can find what was lost, and make peace with what was. Can't wait for more of these to come out and find their way into a book that touches hearts.
Sue Schmidt, worship facilitator, life coach and mother of three adult daughters
Mother's response
I had spoken with Mother about writing after our phone calls a couple of times. I told her that I had gotten to share the essays with a warm group and more specifically, of Paul Van Arragon's sense that he could learn from me to try to increase the quality of the time he spends with his aging parents.
Mother replied, "I do want to be an encouragement."
She is and I am so proud of her.
Mother replied, "I do want to be an encouragement."
She is and I am so proud of her.
An amazing conversation with Mother two months before her death.
Mother died on November 28, 2013 after yet another fall.